Relationships are tricky. When everything this good, your relationships makes you feel like you are in a heaven and when things go wrong, same relationships makes your life hell. I am a firm believer of holding on to things and never giving up on your love. But sometimes, it is better to let go than to suffer.
If you really love someone, then their happiness should be your happiness. You must be okay in whatever they want which includes separation. True love is not about just getting what you love. It is not a business where you have to take something in return if you give. True love is divine. It means you should be able to love that person, even when they are not with you.
I believe in this kind of love. I too loved someone and with all my heart and soul. I kept on giving and giving, with best of my capabilities. I bowed many times. I apologized many time, even when it was not my fault. I went out of my way to help that person. I tried my best. But in the end, that person said – there is nothing left…
It shattered me. I wanted to hold on and give it another shot. But then again, he said – why are talking to me when there is nothing left?
It broke me even more!
But more than that, it hit me harder. I realized that this is not what I want. I realized that I prayed so hard for this relationship. It was my answer to the prayers. I manifested it. How can I put conditions on it! It came to me naturally. Why am I now trying so hard to mend it!
And this is the point that I want to explain to you all here and the main reason why I am writing this post.
I have been wise about relationships, not just love but all kinds. May be this is the reason why I choose to write on love themes when I could write about anything in my books.
Love should come naturally. Love should happen naturally.
So, if your love is trying to push you away and if you have to try really hard to make things work, then take a deep breathe and let it go.
If your love is true, if your feels are genuine and if you ACTUALLY want to be with that person, that trust me when I say this – Your love will come back to you, no matter how long it takes!
Because ultimately we get what we actually want.
So, when I say let it go and stop making your heart suffer, I actually mean stop putting efforts and poking the person, sit back and trust the divine timings. With ‘let it go’ I don’t mean stop loving that person. Because I know that is practically not possible. These “relationship experts” keep on saying things stop loving that person, forget it, shift your focus, find someone new bla bla bla! But notice that most of these relationship experts are either happily married or just self-acclaimed “experts” trying to weave content for social media to grab attention. No hard feelings for them as it is their profession. But what I mean by giving you this example is, not everyone will understand what YOU are going through.
It is very easy to sit on the other chair and give gyan about love. The one who goes through actually and only knows how tough it is to bear the pain of separation, especially when the person is alive.
So, if you can move on easily, do it. Because then you are NOT TRULY in LOVE with that person. If are able to forget that person, do it. Because that is good for you.
But when you try everything and nothing works… and still you have love for them then 1) it is true love, and 2) you must let the divine handle your case and you should let it go and go with the flow to see where it takes you!
After really a long time, I wrote something about love and relationships and I felt good.
I felt the need of writing this out – for my heart’s sake and for all the broken hearts finding answers.
Just know that you are not alone!
Trust the diving timings!
Hope this helped!
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