How To Learn To Love Yourself At First

- By Anamika Mishra

How To Learn To Love Yourself At First

You should always love self before falling in love with other. Yes! It is very important that you love, understand and value your own self. It’s really a simple rule. If you don’t love yourself, how can you expect others to even like you? And just when you thought that self-loving is not just possible for you, here are little tips to help you to love yourself:

Be honest about your feelings:

You do not have to control your feelings or feel like the way others feel about you. It is OK to feel the way you want to and do not compromise with it.

Expand your interests:

If you have a particular interest, you can always expand it. If you love traveling, take out some time and travel the places that you always wanted to go. You will be mentally contented and will get ample time to connect with self.

Be patient:

Most of the times we are frustrated about ourselves. We have lot many regrets and guilt. But it is OK. Have patient. Learn to appreciate your efforts and accept yourself even if you have committed errors.

Eliminate negative people:

Negative people are like parasites. They suck the positivism from your life and leave you paralyzed. They always make you feel bad about yourself. You feel negative and depressed about self. Stay away from such negative people in life and eliminate them totally.

Spend some time alone:

When was the last time that you connected with self? When was the last time when you spoke to yourself?If you want to fall in love with yourself, you must spend some quality time with self. Remember all the good times and memories to cheer you up.

Thus, falling in love with self is not a tough task. You need to be prepared for it and accept as you are. Do not find out faults with yourself every time and be at peace. Accept your flaws.