Getting to know someone completely is not easy. But there are some questions you can ask to that person to get to know him/her better. These questions can help you understand the person as an individual which can eventually help you steer your relationships correctly. You might be wondering what should you ask? Well, this article is all about it. I am sharing the most important questions you can ask to get to know someone better. Let’s see what these questions are:
Questions to Get to Know Someone’s likes:
The first set of questions is about knowing someone’s likes. Getting aware about someone’s likes dislikes can really help you bond with that person in a better way.
- Your current favourite song?
- Who is your favourite singer?
- Web series you watched recently that you really liked?
- What are your hobbies?
- Do you like reading books? If yes, what kinds?
- Do you like to listen to the podcast? What kinds?
- Your favourite cuisine?
- Do you like to cook?
- Do you like watching FRIENDS?
- Do you like Harry Potter?
- You like Kumar Sanu, Kishor Kumar, Rafi or Himesh Reshammiya? or anyone else?
- Tell me about your best vacation so far?
- A place to where you have travelled before and you love to re-visit again?
- Do you prefer netflix and chill or going to a theatre to watch the movie?
- A date in a fine-dine restaurant or a cafe or a pub/club?
- Are you a party person?
- Your favourite perfume?
- What is your shopping frequency?
- What you spend most of your money on? which thing? like clothes, accessories, travel, food?
- Who is your celebrity crush?
- Coffee or tea? With milk and sugar or without?
- Do you like hill-stations or a beach destination?
- You like pets?
- You like kids?
- You prefer ordering food from outside or cook?
Questions to Get to Know Someone’s Work:
Aside from knowing the likes and dislikes, getting to know about someone’s profession can lead to an interesting conversation, especially when you both are from a different industry. Also, this can be very effective for getting those who are passionate about their profession and work to open up more freely and eventually, you will understand their nature.
- What do you do?
- Do you like your job? If yes, why? If no, then why not?
- If not this job, when what would have been your 2nd option?
- Do you have any side business to support your income?
- Was this your dream?
- If money weren’t an issue, would you still be doing the same line of work as you do today?
- What’s the best career advice anyone has given to you?
- Are you a workaholic?
- What are your working hours?
- What is that one thing you can change about your job/work?
- How do you separate your work and personal life?
Questions to Get to Know Someone’s Family Life:
Getting to know someone’s views about their family lives is important as it shows if a person is relationship and family oriented or not? This is important if you are looking for a long-term relationship.
- Who all are there in your family?
- You are closest to?
- Do you like family vacations?
- Which was your best family vacation and why?
- What is your best memory that you have of your family being together?
- You like family functions?
- Any family traditions that you always follow?
- Tell me about your parents life journey?
- What do you prefer – joint family or nuclear family?
General Questions to Ask to Get to know Someone Better:’
- What is your day routine like?
- Do you practise yoga or do meditation?
- Do you believe in the law of attraction or have any other spiritual beliefs?
- One person you admire the most?
- Who is your role model in life?
- Do you like to do any volunteer work?
- What is your biggest fear?
- How do you handle stress?
- How to manage anger?
- Do believe in second chances?
- Will you forgive if someone cheat on you?
- What is more important – past, present or future?
- What is the most important thing in a relationship?
Hope this helps!
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