Valentine’s day is a day of love. People plan a lot for their loved ones. I have seen people buying gifts, not only for their boyfriend or girlfriends, but also for their mom, dad, friends, grandma, grandpa, etc. It’s kinda really sweet when all over world, people express their love towards their loved ones on this day. But in this rush of buying gifts, planning a perfect date or surprises, we forget to express our love towards that only mate, which is always with us in our every single moment – Its ourselves, our inner self. This valentine’s day, learn to love yourself.
Loving your own-self is really easy. You just need to listen to your heart and behave accordingly. You can stand in front of the mirror and look straight into your eyes thinking how lucky and happy you are!
We often tend to forget our own choices while trying to fulfill others’ demands.
Loving yourself is also very important for a healthy living and sound body. When you love yourself, you feel happy from within which automatically makes you healthy and sound.
Now you might be wondering, how you can love yourself?
There are numerous ways to love yourself. The foremost thing is to listen to what your heart is saying to you!! Follow that. Do anything which makes you happy from within. Like, in my case… I love to buy cute gifts and greeting cards for myself. And every valentine’s day, I buy something for myself… This gives an immense pleasure to me. You can do this too. You can listen to your favorite song. You can jot down the idea of your dream date on a paper and decorate it like a scrapbook. You can go shopping alone or with a good company. Dress yourself in your favorite dress. Pamper yourself with a beauty session or spa. Be around happy and loving people. Never ever abandon yourself for any damn thing in life, may be your break-up or a financial loss… Nothing in the world is precious that your own self.
The main thing is, you just need to start loving yourself. Expecting others to make love you while you are abandoning yourself will never ever lead to the feeling of being loved and lovable.
Sharing love is one of the most beautiful experiences in life, but for that you need to be filled with love, in order to share. Learning to love yourself is what exactly fills you with love.
So, this valentine’s day… Make a life long promise to yourself that you will love your own self, not matter what happens…
Stay blessed & keep loving yourself.